Ep. 8.16.1Cōnfēcērunt mē īnfirmitātēs meōrum, mortēs etiam, et quidem iuvenum.I have been worn down by the illnesses of my household, and deaths too, and those of young men. Ep. 8.16.1Sōlācia duo nēquāquam paria tantō dolōrī, sōlācia tamen: ūnum facilitās manūmittendī - videor enim nōn omnīnō immātūrōs perdidisse, quōs iam līberōs perdidī -, alterum quod permittō servīs quoque quasi testāmenta facere, eaque ut lēgitima custōdiō.I have two consolations, by no means equal to so great a grief, but consolations nonetheless: one is my readiness to grant freedom — for I seem not to have lost wholly before their time those whom I lost when already free —, the other that I allow my slaves too to make what amount to wills, and I keep them as if they were legally valid. Ep. 8.16.2Mandant rogantque quod vīsum;They instruct and request as seems good to them; Ep. 8.16.2pāreō ut iussus.I obey as if under orders. Ep. 8.16.2Dīvidunt dōnant relinquunt, dumtaxat intrā domum;They divide their property, give it away, leave it, provided only it is within the household; Ep. 8.16.2nam servīs rēs pūblica quaedam et quasi cīvitās domus est.for to slaves the household is a kind of commonwealth and, as it were, a state.
Ep. 8.16.3Sed quamquam hīs sōlāciīs acquiēscam, dēbilitor et frangor eādem illā hūmānitāte, quae mē ut hoc ipsum permitterem indūxit.But although I find rest in these consolations, I am weakened and broken by that same humanity which led me to allow this very thing. Ep. 8.16.3Nōn ideō tamen velim dūrior fierī.Yet I would not for that reason wish to become harder. Ep. 8.16.3Nec ignōrō aliōs eius modī cāsūs nihil amplius vocāre quam damnum, eōque sibi magnōs hominēs et sapientēs vidērī.Nor am I unaware that others call misfortunes of this kind nothing more than a loss, and think themselves great and wise men on that account. Ep. 8.16.3Quī an magnī sapientēsque sint, nesciō;Whether they are great and wise, I do not know; Ep. 8.16.3hominēs nōn sunt.men they are not. Ep. 8.16.4Hominis est enim afficī dolōre sentīre, resistere tamen et sōlācia admittere, nōn sōlāciīs nōn egēre.For it is the mark of a man to be affected by grief, to feel it, yet to resist and to admit consolation, not to have no need of consolation. Ep. 8.16.5Vērum dē hīs plūra fortasse quam dēbuī;But on this subject I have said perhaps more than I ought; Ep. 8.16.5sed pauciōra quam voluī.but less than I wished.
Ep. 8.16.5Est enim quaedam etiam dolendī voluptās, praesertim sī in amīcī sinū dēfleās, apud quem lacrimīs tuīs vel laus sit parāta vel venia.For there is a certain pleasure even in grieving, especially if you weep on the bosom of a friend, with whom either praise or pardon is ready for your tears. Ep. 8.16.5Valē.Farewell.